Building Dialogue

Helping you plan and facilitate difficult dialogues

Category: Handling Hate in Community Dialogue

  • One form of disinformation is the “look over there, not over here” narrative, especially when used to scapegoat a person or a population. We are currently hearing a version of this narrative in the form of an attack on federal employees who are being portrayed as representative of government bloat or corruption.  Yet let’s look…

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  • Speaking Up.

    Its been a difficult few weeks in American politics. Are you concerned that racism, hate, mendacity, and hyper-partisanship are dominating our national discourse? As citizens we have more power to shape the national discourse than we might think. Here’s what you can do: Recognize the patterns of hate and respond with Stories of Wisdom. Ask…

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  • Healing Wounds

    Last month I was sitting with friends and discussing recent events at the University of Missouri. One of those present – an African American – said with sadness “it’s getting to the point where I hope there isn’t another African-American president in my life-time.  I don’t remember it ever being this bad.” Another member of…

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  • To peace-makers everywhere, we extend our best wishes for the new year. Here also, following up on our previous posts about Ferguson, MO, are some additional resources that may be of use to those who looking for ways to address, and ultimately heal, the racial divides in our community. John Backman wrote an excellent summary…

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  • After the twin towers fell 13 years ago, my then 13 year old daughter struggled to understand the world she was growing into.  Ultimately she wrote a poem.  That poem began with a sense of helplessness: I do not hold in my hand the power to change  what happened on September 11. I cannot turn…

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