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Some of the most difficult things to deal with in community discussions are the intense anger, animosity, and distrust that frequently arise in discussions surrounding topics like development or public safety when participants have very different interests, values, and experiences.  One framework we have found helpful when intense, powerful conflicts arise is Robert J. Sternberg’s taxonomy of hate (see The Psychology of Hate, 2009, p 39-40).  In this framework, which we will discuss over the next several weeks, Sternberg defines three basic forms of hate: cool, hot, and cold.  Understanding these different forms and their dynamics can give facilitators new tools for navigating intense emotion and distrust.  Understanding these forms can also help you make realistic decisions as to what types of intervention are most likely to help move an issue forward, what is simply not feasible, and what safeguards might need to be in place.  Dealing with any form of hate requires careful planning, time for processing, patience, and perseverance if change is to occur.  Next week we will discuss cool hate, what it is and how you might address it.

6 responses to “Dealing with Anger and Hate In The Community”

  1. […] of Hate – Hot Hate Posted on January 25, 2011 by DaveO| Leave a comment This week we continue our discussion on dealing with the hard cases using Sternberg’s taxonomy of hate.  The second entry in Sternberg’s taxonomy is hot […]

  2. […] of Hate – Cold Hate Posted on February 1, 2011 by DaveO| Leave a comment This week we continue our discussion on dealing with the hard cases utilizing Sternberg’s taxonomy of hate.  The third entry in Sternberg’s taxonomy is […]

  3. […] the last few weeks we have been discussing dialogue in hard cases, and reviewing  the Sternberg taxonomy of hate.   Each of the base forms discussed in the last three weeks, Cool Hate, Hot Hate, and Cold Hate, […]

  4. […] continue to be actively accessed resources.  Most popular series currently include the series on  working through hate, structuring engagement, and using evaluation to strengthen dialogue efforts.  We welcome your […]

  5. […] How do you start a dialogue when people hate each other? […]

  6. […] week we continue our discussion on dealing with the hard cases by utilizing Sternberg’s taxonomy of hate.  The first entry in Sternberg’s taxonomy is […]

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